Whatup dudes and dudets!!! I personally gave special thanks to God for last week Friday. I guess all of you know the obvious reason. Speaking the conspicuous, it is the start of a four day break from work. Sounds good? Absolutely great! . So I decided to harness the opportunity to do something worthwhile and special. Wanna know what that is? Let’s save the gist for the raining day.. Ehn ehn,enough on my own plans for the break. How have you decided to spend yours ?
**thinking** yes got where to start from.I happen to be born and brought up by a woman who lacks enough quality and quantity of education. But with the little she got,she was able to use it to earn a little and take care of her three boys. Because of her relative success at achieving that with so little of secular education,she wonders ” what if I had more education,won’t I be more successful? To her,education is probably the only realistic key to success. That made her to invest so much in her boys education. Thank God for her anyway. But thinking, is she really right with her reasoning ? Could she have been more successful if she had a better education ? Probably yes,because we never could tell. But is she also right thinking that education is the only realistic key to success? I bet not. First let check the common history. Mark zuckerbug,bill gates,Steve jobs etc. Those names ring a bell ? Were they successful ? Were they educated secularly? You may probably argue that money is not the only means of measuring success. Yes ,you are right. Check this : Jesus ,Mohammed ,malcom x,mother Theresa,martin Luther king. This names also ring bell right? Were they educated ? Were they rich? Were they successful? I will not answer any of those questions,it is yours to. You see, school does not cut it when it comes to real success. So what does?…I guess I will answer that in my next post.
Today I was at a wedding ceremony of a friend of mine. In simple words,I am happy for him. A man of his quality deserves a day like this. He was truly honored. Besides, he comes from a family that really embodied what a family is all about which is the ” peaceful coexistence of all related by blood”. I told another friend of mine that,that the wedding was worth the sacrifices I made for it. But here and there at the wedding,I kept on drawing lessons from the wedding . Who does that? you may be wondering. In the mist of the dine and wine I was digging at the mine of wisdom. Looking at this handsome groom in front of me,I know of certain sisters that would have been here if they have upped their games. You see, sisters,time waits for no man let alone woman,if you see a responsible credible bachelor and he is interested in you, tie him down. If you do,in time you will lie with him in holy matrimony. That is for the sisters, what about the brothers? Looking at this young brother,you will want to be responsible both physically and spiritually. He is. A lawyer in the capital,an elder, what else? He got himself what makes him a catch.So as a brother, my lesson from the wedding is: Make yourself a big catch and you will see your perfect match hopefully.